You’re not lost. The thread is.
The Soul Edit Coaching for women at a turning point, when you look back for something that is yours and cannot find it.
It usually starts quietly
A slow burn of doing everything for everyone else. Living on autopilot. Adapting, absorbing, holding it together.
You are the capable one. The one everybody comes to. You are very good at looking fine.
And then somewhere along the way you look back for something that is yours, and you cannot find a single thing.
The work you did went out under a company’s name, or a partner’s business, or a family name. The rest of it left no trace at all. So you have quietly concluded that you have not really achieved anything, and that the exhaustion is your own fault.
It is not, and you have not.
You are not lost. The thread is. You put it down somewhere along the way because your hands were full, and you have not had a chance to pick it back up.
Held, not fixed
There is nothing wrong with you and nothing here needs repairing.
What we do is go back and find the evidence. What you have already built, what you have held together, what you taught yourself, what people come to you for. Most of it you stopped counting years ago.
Then we look at what still pulls at you, and take one small step towards it.
I will never put you on the spot. If I ask you something and you have not got an answer, that is completely fine. You can sit with it and come back to it. Most of the useful thinking happens in the car or the bath, not sitting across from someone.
Finding the Thread
A six week programme for women at a turning point.
Six weekly sessions, one hour each, online.
We start by slowing down and letting you say it all out loud, properly, to someone who is not going to flinch. Then we look at the voice that has been telling you that you are useless and that it is all your fault, and work out whose voice it actually is.
From there we go looking for everything you have already built and never counted. That is usually the week that changes things.
Then what still pulls at you, what you would do if it did not have to pay, and the version of it you could actually start this month. And finally, what needs to shift to make room, and one small step to begin.
The six weeks
You will not leave with a five year plan. You will leave knowing what you have already built, which way you are facing, and with one small thing already moving.
Price
The Soul Edit Sessions
A single session, whenever you need one
You will get a few questions to fill in beforehand, in your own time, so we are not spending the first twenty minutes on background. Afterwards you get a short email, a card pull, and one small thing to take away.
60 minutes, R850 A focused reset. Space to say it all out loud, work out what is underneath it, and leave with one small thing.
90 minutes, R1 150 The same, with room to go deeper into what is already yours and what you want to build back.
Prefer to start on your own?
Conquer Your Overwhelm Masterclass For when the chaos has taken over and you cannot see a way through it.
You can add a one to one session to either of these at any time.
The Soul Edit Podcast
Originally launched as Yes, Life Is This, and now continuing under The Soul Edit.
Available on:
Supportive Tools for Daily Reflection and Growth
Note: Some products may still carry the “Yes, Life is This” label — my original brand. The energy behind them remains the same.
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Whether you're just starting or already deep in your journey — you're welcome here.
